CGL/DDLG Rules for Beginners

New to the CGL/DDLG scene? Looking for more rules for your little one? Single little looking for some rules? Look no further because here is an overly extensive list of rules for whatever your need may be 😊 I decided to divide the list into rules you could use as a single little and rules when you have a daddy/caregiver.

 (P.S. feel free to modify as much as you like)

Rules that can be used for a single or taken little:

1. Always drink at least four glasses of water a day
2. One hour of exercise per day (could be yoga or the gym or dancing around in your underwear)
3. No cuss words in little space
4. Bedtime should be ____ at the latest unless on weekend when bedtime is ___
5. Have a shower or a bath every day
6. Brush teeth at least twice a day
7. Clean up all your toys after playing with them
8. Full room clean at least once a week
9. No self harm, if you feel like self harming talk to someone
10. Always use your manners
11. Always eat at least 2 meals a day
12. Only have one sweet a day
13. Always wake up by ____ every day
14. Set a minimum amount of time to go into little space per week
15. On particularly hard days, you may have an extra sweet (or other things you enjoy!)
16. Read at least one new book a month
17. Always be on your best behaviour

Rules for a little with a CG:

1. Always listen to your CG.
2. Tell your CG if you break any rules
3. Don’t keep any secrets from your CG (unless it’s like a Birthday surprise, then that’s ok ;D)
4. Always hold you CG’s hand in public
5. Tell your CG where you’re going and who you’re going with
6. Send your CG a cute selfie whenever you are a little and they can’t be there with you
7. Always tell your CG good morning when you wake up
8. Tell you CG everything you eat so they know you’re eating healthy and not having too many sweets
9. Tell your CG anytime something is bothering you
10. Tell your CG whenever you go into littlespace
11. Never lie to your CG
12. No interrupting your CG while they’re talking or working
13. CG must approve outfits when going out
14. Ask CG permission to touch special parts
15. Must ask CG’s permission before cummies

When I Realized I Am A Little

For as long as I can remember I have always had little tendencies.

I never stopped loving playing with toys. When everyone had long grew out of it, I would still go home at the end of the school day and play with my Bratz dolls. I always had stuffies, and I don’t mean just a few I mean I always had A LOT of stuffies. I used to have a bunk bed and one of the beds was entirely used to hold my stuffie collection. I’ve calmed down a bit since those days. A bit. Not a lot honestly but anyway I’ve gone off topic.

The jist of the beginning of this story is I have always enjoyed things like colouring and playing with toys. Luckily I had a family that encouraged me to do what I wanted to do an didn’t make fun of me for playing with toys well after most children stopped. They thought it was good to continue using your imagination to play games.

SIDENOTE- I’m writing this at 5:00 in the morning when I have had no sleep and I am incredibly tired but I can’t sleep right now because of reasons so if this whole post is a mess just tell me and I’ll rewrite it.

Anyway, as a grown ass adult I still had desires to play with toys and I wondered for a long time what was wrong with me. What 21 year-old still loves collecting stuffed animals and watching cartoons and playing with toys in the bathtub? The answer was me. I definitely did.

On top of this, I always knew I was a sub that desired a more dominant person that didn’t mind taking care of a lot of the adult things in our relationship. Like finances. I never thought too much about this aspect of my relationships I just thought it was me and I didn’t like having that much adult responsibility.

So one hot summer day I was sitting in my room working on homework, and by sitting I mean laying on my bed and by homework I mean scrolling through pinterest. That was the day I found a meme. That’s right, my DDLG life began with a meme. I remember it exactly, it said something along the lines of “when daddy says no to his little” and it had a picture of Belle from Beauty and the Beast pouting. I was instantly intrigued. What was a little? The post was by someone with DDLG in their name, what was that? And I started googling. The first thing I found was Binkie Princess (I think on Instagram at least she goes by sailor binkie now) and I started watching her videos.

That was it. I suddenly knew what I was. AND THERE WAS OTHER PEOPLE LIKE ME! There was a whole community of people that liked playing with toys and they had these things called care givers (also called daddy’s) and the way they described ddlg was basically my relationship already I just didn’t have the language or understanding to know what it was before then.

Simply put, I was hooked. I wanted to be a part of this community. I wanted to dive deep into being a little and let my inner little self out now that I knew it was ok. After much searching and googling I began to adopt the lifestyle and let me tell you, I have been nothing but happy in my little life ever since.